“It’s a new dawn, It’s a new day, It’s a new life for me, And I’m feeling good”

A celebration with posts on health, sexuality and style

2020 marks the year of a world-wide pandemic and for many of us it might be the most single important world event of our lives. 2020 was also the year that I turned 50 and that has felt pretty significant too.

I began my journey as a married submissive in 2012 and started to blog about it in 2016. Since then, Submissy has grown with me, whilst also keeping its focus on sharing the details of my life and my lifestyle with those who choose to read.

While I still want to write about D/s, I also want to blog about other things related to my life and my lifestyle. Feeling good about yourself and being comfortable in your own skin is so important and these posts are about my quest to do just that: to feel good, to feel sexy and to make the most of being me.

It’s a new dawn, it’s a new day, it’s a new life for me, and I’m feeling good.

Feeling Good Magazine Cover

In case you missed it … some posts from the past

Valentine’s Date Night

Dressing for You

Bondara Flirt Wet Look and Mesh Cami ~ Review

Read More about Feeling Good

Hot Legs

Hot Legs Who’s that knocking on my doorIt’s gotta be a quarter to fourIs it…

Feeling Playful

I enjoy dressing up. Dressing up for HL is even better as he makes me…

Bondara Flirt Wet Look and Mesh Cami ~ Review

I really liked the look of the Bondara Flirt Wet Look and Mesh Cami, Thong…

Nudity and freedom

I have mixed feelings about nudity. I can find being naked really liberating and sometimes…

Want to play?

Some say I don’t play well with others. I say it depends on who it…

Seeing Through Things

“It is said that wisdom lies not in seeing things, but seeing through things.” Manly P. Hall We are…

Feeling Sexy – Enclothed Cognition

I have wanted to write about clothes and how they make me feel for a…

Sex, submission and confidence

I have low confidence. That is not to say I am not confident in some…

Erotic photography and where it fits

This post is about erotic photography and where it fits within our D/s dynamic. I…

Picture Perfect – avoiding the negatives

My issues with my body mean that things are never going to be picture perfect…

Burlesque Baby – Fun Theme Photo Meme

I wanted to post this picture as part of a new meme which is being…

My Caveman Brain

Anxiety is something that we all feel and it comes from our caveman brain. It…

Slipping in time

I am funny about messing with time. There are things I would change, of course,…

Valentine’s Date Night

We never really do anything for Valentine’s Day.  One reason is that it is so…

Romance

I thought that I would start with the Carol Ann Duffy poem, ‘Valentine’ because, through…

Fifty

Fifty has always sounded quite old to me so the fact that it is actually…

Mindful Masturbation

Setting the Scene It is a Sunday morning and I am sitting in the bath,…

Wearing his collar and cuffs

I get ready as usual in the clothes that we have agreed I will wear….

If you’ve got it, flaunt it.

I am not very good at flaunting myself. I tend not to have the confidence…

The things I do for (self) Love

Let me start by saying that I am not good at self love. It is…

Showing Stigma the Finger

I have been fortunate not to have suffered a lot of stigma in my life,…

Lucky is a state of mind

So, this is late and is not the post that I was planning to write…

White Shirt

The white blouse can be light and floating, impeccable and austere, sumptuous and all-enveloping, tight…

Sexy Pictures

The first sexy pictures I ever took were for HL. This is probably partly due…

Gloves

There is something sexy about long satin opera gloves, and that is often the way…

Reading, sexuality and submission

Reading can spur a lot of erotic emotions, thoughts, and actions. Write about the books,…

Dressing for You

“A girl should be two things: who and what she wants.” – Coco Chanel Clothes…

D/s and self-care

It might seem that focussing on the needs and desires of your partner would leave…

All about the Uniform

The first few times HL and I got a chance to be together properly, he…

Poser

I have blogged quite a bit about posting risqué photographs of myself so I was…

The Fishnet Affair

I have had a bit of a love/hate relationship with fishnets over the years. I…

Blame it on the Boots

I LOVE boots. My friend Emily will joke when I say that I don’t know…

D/s and Exercise

About a year and a half ago, I began trying a new way of exercising…

Being Beautiful

More and more I feel that I am changing. I feel that I am able…

Femininity and feeling feminine

I have been thinking a little more about what I wrote in my previous post…

D/s has made me sexy

I think that for most women, being desired makes them feel sexy.  That ‘I want…