public play

Public Play

Public play is something that we both find quite interesting and therefore, it might seem strange that we  have not done more of it. Although we have had a couple of opportunities and have give it a go, it is not something that has become much of a feature of […]

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denim

My love is denim

Denim is a love that never fades ~ Elio Fiorucci To see who else is posting an image this week for Sinful Sunday please kiss the lips above. Or Click here to see more of my Sinful Sunday Posts

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The Forgotten Instruction - picture of Missy from Focused and Filthy on the table with legs arranged in a heart shape

The forgotten instruction

I apologised when I realised that I hadn’t sent the required picture of my underwear choice for the day. I had been busy and, in a rush to get ready for work had forgotten his instruction. It was only during the lunchtime check-in text that I remembered that I had […]

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Collar and Cuffs

Collar and Cuffs

Despite the fact that I wear a day collar all the time as a symbol of my submission to HL, we use collars and cuffs less these days than in the past and, thinking about it now, this is something that I would like to change.  The collar I wear […]

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only a kiss

Mr Brightside: It was only a kiss

He knew that he wanted her as soon as he saw her. He couldn’t quite say why but he was kind of a serial pursuer of pleasure. He had married by mistake if the truth be known. Like a genuine case of misunderstanding, but that was another story; his story, […]

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In a Lather

In a Lather

“Up on the edge of the bath now and spread your legs. I want to look at you.” I feel awkward but I do as he says. Something trills inside me a little and my eyes lower, not as as a conscious act of submission but more as a natural […]

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Living in a D/s power exchange

Living in a D/s Power Exchange

What is a power exchange An agreed power exchange is what makes our relationship a Dominant and submissive one. Most relationships consider themselves to be equal ones which means that each partner takes it in turns to lead. Some may consider themselves more traditional where the male always takes the […]

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Erotic Humiliation

More About Erotic Humiliation

Obviously I set the topic for TMA and so want to take part. But I am also aware that I have written a lot about erotic humiliation here already and that is because it is one, if not the biggest one, of my kinks. I suppose the way I experience […]

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White Shirt

The white blouse can be light and floating, impeccable and austere, sumptuous and all-enveloping, tight and close-fitting. It rises up to frame the face. It sculpts the body by transforming itself into a second skin. Imputed with glamour and poetry, freedom and impetuousness, the prim white shirt turns out to […]

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What is Dominance

What is Dominance?

The Tell Me About prompt this time is Dominance. I have written before about why I feel that I have A Need for Domination on an emotional level, and have also explored Why Dominance turns me on in a more recent post. What I don’t think I have ever really been able […]

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Waiting

Waiting

There was a time when men thought it was sexy to have a housewife waiting for him to come home from work in her slippers, but in modern society, I think an independent woman is even more sexy.  Kat Graham All I can say is imagine how sexy it is […]

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Evening

The Evening He First Saw Her

The dim glow of evening brings with it the promise of things which are not quite touchable the same way as they are in the full light of the day. It is mystery and beauty and wonder and it is never clear just which direction will be taken.  So it […]

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Trust and submission

Trust and submission

If D/s has taught me anything, it has taught me that feelings are not quantifiable. I have always had trust in HL. Has it always been the same level of trust that I have in him now? No. Is it at a level where I can say in all honesty, […]

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Black and White

To see in color is a delight for the eye but to see in black and white is a delight for the soul. – Andri Cauldwell I am going to be away this week for work. My life will be lived out in colour as I take in all the […]

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barely there

Barely There

Sometimes we are barely there. We aren’t seen, or at least parts of us aren’t seen or are overlooked. At times that can be frustrating but, at others, it can be a good thing. It can mean that we have time to watch, time to breathe, time just to be. […]

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Erotic Spanking

Erotic Spanking – the bottom line

Why Erotic Spanking? We love erotic spanking. I suppose I could ask what’s not to love, but I know that not everyone enjoys it like we do.  As you might imagine, within our dynamic HL is the spanker and I am the spanked, but we both enjoy what it gives […]

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unmentionable

Never mention the unmentionable

There are some things that I would like to mention. About me. And about my life. I have never told you because I worry that you would not understand, and that you might use it against me, so I keep quiet. I don’t mention these things which are unmentionable. It […]

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