You light me up

The number 6 spot on our advent calendar this year was taken by electric play: You light me up – with electric – wired and ready to rock your world. I bought an ElectraStim kit last year for HL as part of our Kinky Christmas and we absolutely love it. […]

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missy reading the great gatsby

The Great Gatsby – One Book

One book that I love is ‘The Great Gatsby’. I fell in love with it when I was 17 and I have remained true, dipping into it over the years, watching the various film adaptations, and once, even teaching it.  The copy here is the original that I bought back […]

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TV and fondle under a blanket

Well the big number 5 was entitled ‘The Weather Inside is Frightful’. and it was TV and a fondle under a blanket. Actually nothing could have been further from what I wanted. We snuggled up and after the dog stopped trying to come between us by staring at the movement […]

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candy caning

Candy Caning

Well, number 4 was a candy caning – ‘apparently stripes aren’t just for the cane; they give them too’. I had been looking forward to this one.  We used to have a regular cane session on a Wednesday night but for one reason or another, it seems to have slipped […]

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Glass of christmas cheer

A glass of Christmas Cheer

Number 3 in this year’s calendar was a carry over from last year: ‘A glass of Christmas cheer.’ The idea behind this was some play with our glass icicle dildo (warmed up luckily!) I wondered whether to post about this because really, it didn’t work out so well but I […]

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Gloves because Baby It’s Cold Outside

Number two in our advent calendar was ‘Gloves because Baby It’s Cold Outside.’  I was pretty surprised with this one and it wasn’t really what I had expected. This can be a good thing and it was. The weather has turned pretty cold up here and I couldn’t seem to […]

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Christmas Bake off

Christmas Bake Off

So the first day of our calendar was ‘Christmas Bake Off’.  In reality this was more of a bake up than a bake off but it was about me doing something nice for HL. Not very sexy I know but I think we have found over time that actually the […]

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D/s Advent Calendar 2019

D/s Advent Calendar 2019

It is that time again. Well actually it is four days into that time again but although my post is late, my submissive slant on advent is underway. Actually we weren’t sure we would do anything to mark advent this year. I think we swayed because we have done it […]

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Too late to apologise

Too late to apologise

She had been sidetracked on her laptop. She had started off Christmas shopping as there were so many deals on, but had also been lured into social media. She really wasn’t aware of the time until she heard the door click and his footsteps. Her stomach turned a little. She […]

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Hat and Heels

Hat and Heels

The prompt for Sinful Sunday this week is the letter H. I hummed and hawed (very on prompt) over which H to submit: Handcuffs, hood, headband? Or something more active? Hand job, honour bondage or humiliation. What about a hog -tie? In the end I broke with habit and settled […]

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Room 26 Pearce

Room 26 – Pearce (A Life of Pleasure Part 2)

This is part two of a series set in a futuristic dystopian world. Asha is a Responsive in a world which has become Frigid. She works at The Citadel where her orgasms, along with the orgasms of the other Reponsives, are harnessed each day in order to power the world. […]

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missy watching from a window

Window watching

There is something about watching from a window. It feels like time well spent on the observations made. Meaningless in themselves, they require nothing from me in terms of response and yet, each picture evokes a response regardless. What looks like a simple daydream from the outside, is actually the […]

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Excited, Nervous – Save the Date!

HL and I have attended Eroticon for the past two years. In short, we have been inspired, motivated and enthused by what we learned there. We have also felt welcomed, included and accepted by a whole community of people who are altruistic, encouraging and who we are excited to be […]

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Photography and collaboration

Photography and collaboration

When we were away the other week we had a nice apartment with a mirror. I have always really liked mirror pictures as I like the reflection and the way the mirror sort of distorts the image so that it appears to tell a story. I had an idea for […]

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reset

Reset or reality

I am struggling to write about resets. I realise that we have not reset for a long time and that leads me to consider why. It would be good if I could say that it was because things were going so well with our D/s dynamic that it was not […]

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vampire

Vampire Girl

Lower and lower went her head as the lips went below the range of my mouth and chin and seemed to fasten on my throat. Then she paused, and I could hear the churning sound of her tongue as it licked her teeth and lips, and I could feel the […]

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Finding your thrill

Finding your Thrill

“You live by what you thrill to, and there’s the end of it.”― D.H. Lawrence   I am happy to have found the thing that I thrill to. I don’t necessarily think that means the end to it for me, or really there would be no blog, but we are […]

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What is a scene?

So tell me, what is a scene?

I was asked some time ago what a scene was. The question came via a comment on my blog and the commenter said she had searched my blog for more information or some sort of definition.  I promised at the time that a post would follow but here I am, […]

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Moments in Time

These moments in time

I think that one of the important things I have applied to my relationship with HL is about moments. I came to realise that a lot of what was positive in a relationship came from taking those little thoughts that I have, the random flashes, and committing to making them […]

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passion is energy

Passion is Energy

“Passion is energy.  Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.” – Oprah Winfrey I am just about to start a couple of weeks off work and am hoping that passion and energy will be two of the things to come from the break.  We are also […]

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