Rules are rules: the love tester

Rules are rules: the love tester

She had known as soon as the words slipped from her mouth it was a big mistake, but that mattered little. Rules are rules after all. The fact he had taken his time did not mean that he had forgotten either. He often did it this way: he waited, and […]

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Tape me I am yours - image of missy from focussed and filthy, wearing pink bondage tape around her mouth

Tape me, I am Yours

He has wound the tape around my mouth so that it sticks to itself. I watch him concentrating, lifting his arm as he moves the roll around the back of my head. It feels odd not to speak. It isn’t that I want to, but the knowledge that I can’t […]

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The Capture of Astrid

Astrid had wandered the shores for three summers now, begging for him to come. She had seen him in her dreams and, longed for what she knew only he could give.  He could complete her. He could make her feel alive, although it seemed ironic under the circumstances. She didn’t […]

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Vulnerability and connection

Vulnerability and Connection

Staying vulnerable is a risk we have to take if we want to experience connection I have posted before about vulnerability, and for me it has been significant to the success of my submission. Allowing myself to be vulnerable for HisLordship, and letting him see the real me, has been […]

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Submission and how it works for me

I have written a lot on this blog about submission. That is not surprising as my blog is essentially an account of my life as a submissive wife. It is about the love, the kink and the connection and that is what submission gives me. I could have the love […]

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Tell Me About … Dominance and submission

The new year has left me thinking about my direction, both as a submissive and as a blogger. I get so much from writing on my blog and the reflection which comes from it has really allowed space for me to grow and to learn. About a year and a […]

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missy dressing in fishnets and heels

Dressing for You

“A girl should be two things: who and what she wants.” – Coco Chanel Clothes can be like props to transport you into being something a little different. I have always like that part of dressing up, or indeed of dressing down. For me, getting ready is part of the […]

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The Queen Bee – Review

The Queen Bee by Hot Octopuss describes itself as ‘a powerful next-generation clitoral stimulator’. As those of you who read my blog regularly will know, clit stimulation is really my thing, so I was keen to try out a toy which claimed it could provide ‘a unique and intense experience’. I sometimes feel […]

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In the Window

Standing in the window naked was not something I thought I would ever be comfortable with. And yet, there I am. I love what windows do. A tiny glimpse out and a tiny glimpse in. A slither of information that the mind is left to play with and turn over, […]

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Picture the Letter F

As this is the first Sinful Sunday of 2019 and also a prompt week, I decided to picture the letter F with all of the personal pictures that I posted on my blog last year. I started taking part in Sinful Sunday in February last year and what a year […]

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missy and HL exchange gifts as part of the D/s Advent 2018

Festive Fun – Our D/s Advent Calendar 2018

Well that is the period of advent at a close and, therefore, the end of ‘gifts’ that we were giving each other as part of our D/s Advent Calendar for 2018. I have posted about some of these activities and others I have left private. In order to be transparent, […]

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Welcome to santa's workshop little doll

Welcome to my workshop, little doll

He has told me to make sure that I have shaved for him. When I get into the bedroom I notice that there are christmas carols playing and I wonder how sexy that will make me feel. He once played ‘The Carpenters’ and I had to yellow as the crooning […]

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All we need is a star on top

She had bought the laser lights for him, thinking they would look nice for Christmas. He had set them up while she was out, working hard to make sure that they fell correctly across the house. It hadn’t been easy and there was a lot of trial and error to […]

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missy bound on the bed under a light curtain

Light Bondage

What could be better for Christmas than some light bondage? HL’s most recent festive purchase was a light net which I thought was for decorating the bush in the garden. It seems he had different ideas and told me to lie face down on the bed while he secured it […]

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Hiding from Time

I am hiding from time. It seems to keep creeping in, and creeping up, and catching me off guard. Can it see me here? Will it find me? Or can I sit here and be safe for a while? I want these moments. I want to take them and grow […]

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The Auction – Flash Fiction

All that remained was to see who had won. Or more specifically to see who had been won by whom. It was her first time but the other girls had been before and, as they sipped their drinks, little details tumbled out like droplets. She hoped for him. Their eyes […]

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Breathe Me

Breathe Me

 ‘Breathe Me’ by Sia “Be my friend, hold me Wrap me up, unfold me I am small, I’m needy Warm me up and breathe me.” Click the lips to see who else is taking part in Sinful Sunday this week

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Write me a fantasy

10 – Write me a fantasy to carry me away to an erotic land! This is something that we tried last year in the D/s advent calendar for 2017 and so we thought that it would be nice to give it a go again. And as fantasy tends to turn […]

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missy as the naughty christmas elf on a bondage bench

Elf on the Shelf

Actually it is more a case of Elf on the bondage bench but it didn’t seem to have quite the same ring.  Day 8 of our D/s Advent Calendar saw the return of the Naughty Elf with the instruction below: 8 – Naughty Elf . Uh oh – Elf’s back. The […]

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pine needle play

Pine Needle Play

2 – Pine Needle Play Pine Needles of different variety will be needed for this festive scene! Plenty of sharp medical grade needles will be employed to give missy some Ho Ho Ho of her own! I feel you pinch my skin and I wait. I feel vulnerable and weak. […]

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