Intensity, Intimacy and Impact

A to Z Challenge – I I have often said that being in a D/s relationship has allowed me to have the INTIMACY and the INTENSITY that I always wanted but never thought I would find. I always felt too much for someone before and, although they seemed to want […]

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Head, Humiliation and Happy Ever Afters

A to Z Challenge – H They do say that the most important sex organ is the brain and for me that is definitely true. What goes on in my HEAD is a recurring theme in many of the posts written here on my blog, although I have chosen to link It’s […]

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The 08.52 from Glasgow Central

As it was the school holidays this week we managed to get away for a couple of nights with a couple of the kids. Although it wasn’t a romantic break it was nice to have a change of scene all the same; we had fun with the kids and were […]

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Missy’s SoSS #2

Welcome to missy’s SoSS #2 The first article I would like to share is Living with Chronic Lyme Disease by the fabulous May More. In this post May explains that her “man is an author, a rider, a musician. He has worn the hat of a journalist, a social worker and a builder. […]

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Growth, Giving and Gentlemen

A to Z Challenge – G Today is the letter G and my first topic is GROWTH. For me, a huge part of this journey has been about personal growth. D/s has given me the secure base with which to try things that I never would have before. It has […]

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Fantasies, Fairytales and Fisting

A to Z Challenge – F First choice for my Fs are FANTASIES. Being in this type of relationship has given us the communication and the trust to enable us to explore parts of ourselves that I don’t think we would necessarily have done before. Part of this has meant […]

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Expectations, Exposure and Endorphins

A to Z Challenge – E E was a little bit harder and I didn’t have to whittle my selection of things that I wanted to write about down as much. I don’t think that EXPECTATIONS are a D/s related thing as such. More they area a relationship related thing but […]

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Dominance, Drop and and Discipline

A to Z Challenge – D Three more great topics for today. DOMINANCE. For me, without that there would be no submission, at least in the form that it exists now. HisLordship is not a Dominant, he is my Dominant and I am not a submissive, I am his submissive and […]

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Control, Communication and Consent

A to Z Challenge – C It seems that C is a huge letter for me and I have loads to say on the topics I have chosen. Control plays such a large part in a Dominant submissive relationship and it is also a big deal for me as a […]

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Body Image, Beauty and Balance

A to Z Challenge – B B is another letter with lots to write about and one of the most important for me at the moment is BODY IMAGE. I have huge body image issues which I am trying hard to overcome. I don’t really know when this started. I […]

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Funny Bunnies

The prompt for Sinful Sunday this week was humour. Molly wrote, “Sex is often portrayed as a very serious thing but actually, really, it is meant to be a happy and fun experience and in my experience a person with a great sense of humour often makes for a great […]

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Challenges

April here we come! As is often the case, I like to set myself a challenge now and then and the start of the holidays is always a good time for me as I usually have more time than during the term and so sign myself up to take on […]

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Missy’s SoSS #1

I have seen the SoSS tag on Twitter before but never really known what it was about. More and more I feel like I have bedded into my cosy little corner of WordPress and not really noticed what was going on too much in the outside world. If I am […]

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Hooked

“You said everything I needed to hear. I’m hooked now. You have me. What are you going to do with me?” Abbi Glines, Fallen Too Far Last night we found ourselves with a lucky couple of hours alone. HisLordship is not one to miss an opportunity and I quickly found myself […]

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Feeling the Eroticon Effect

Just over half way through our amazing Eroticon weekend and I am really feeling the effects. I have been inspired, enthused and encouraged by so many positive and interesting people and have learnt so much already. So here I go ready to step into day 2 as a sex positive, […]

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A Tail of the Unexpected

Wearing a tail is something that I once fantasised about but it was never something that I expected I would do. It seems funny to look back at that now as it is no longer something that feels forbidden although it does still retain an element of the naughty.  I […]

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Feeding the Birds

Birds are the most popular group in the animal kingdom. We feed them and tame them and think we know them. And yet they inhabit a world which is really rather mysterious. David Attenborough This picture marks the start of ‘the more’ for me I think. I have been so […]

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A Public Spanking

I climb onto the bench and get comfortable. It feels strange but he rubs my back and my bum and bends to whisper in my ear. The voices around about me start to recede and I focus on the closeness of his body. I can feel his warmth and that […]

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Unfiltered Avatar

Last week I decided to take part in Sinful Sunday in the hope that it would allow me to show a little more of myself, both in terms of what I write about and in the image that accompanies it, and ultimately become more comfortable with being me.  When I first […]

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