Zipper, Zone and Z-job

A to Z Challenge – Z Ok, X was hard but I think that Z is probably more of a challenge, but woo hoo, I made it to the end with this post. I have really found this challenge tough and regretted starting it just because of the sheer number of posts I have been […]

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Yes, Yours and Yellow

A to Z Challenge – Y Y is for YES as this is something I should be saying a lot. Yes, Sir to be more precise. I think being compliant is something that I have got much better at and I have also stopped asking all the questions which used to throw Hislordship off. I […]

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Warrior Princess, Want and Wand

A to Z Challenge – W When I first asked for this lifestyle, I had no idea really how it would feel. Submitting seemed like something that would work for me for a number of reasons but I didn’t know how easy or difficult I would find it. In reality it was easy in some […]

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Vulnerability, Voyeurism and Value

A to Z Challenge – V My first for the Vs is VULNERABILITY. I would definitely link this to safety as the two go together: I need to feel safe to show my vulnerability but showing my vulnerability leads to me feeling safer. Making yourself vulnerable can be quite uncomfortable at times but it is a […]

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Understanding, Unique and being Used

A to Z Challenge – U Meeting the needs of the other person has a lot to do with UNDERSTANDING what their needs are. They may become clear during one of your communication sessions, or you may work out what they are based on what you can see in front of you. D/s is about being […]

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Trust, Transition and Training

A to Z Challenge – T T is another letter where there is quite a lot to say but I want to begin with TRUST. I have always trusted HisLordship but the sort of trust we have now is not anything that I ever would have anticipated. It is linked very much to everything else […]

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