Last year I decided to make a submissive advent calendar for HisLordship. This came out of the fact that we had decided not to do much in the way of presents for each other so I thought that giving something small to Sir each day would be a nice way to build up to Christmas and make a little more of it for him. In addition I had been so busy that I had not been able to be as active with my submission as I would like, and I thought that it would help to kick start the festive period and get my head back right where I want it to be. I posted my submissive gift to Sir at the beginning of each day so that it would be like opening the window on an advent calendar for him. I recognised the year had been tough on us both and it was my way of showing him that I think of him and want to submit to him each and every day, and that I really appreciate all that he does for me.
I have to say that this year has been no easier. In fact, in many ways it has probably thrown more challenges at us, but here we are. We have decided this year that we will stick with the theme of doing things for one another but HisLordship has said that he would like to do things for me as well so we have agreed to do it day about. I suppose really it will be a D/s advent calendar this year but I don’t plan to post each one on my blog this time. I know that last year I didn’t really write about what we did with each and how it went so I may link it more of that instead. To complicate things further, Sir is away for half the month working so we will be apart which will affect the things that we can do. I am feeling positive though and think that this will be a great way to keep connected for when he returns; of course, I will let you know.