Baked beans, bollocks and other beefs!

baked-beansI read something yesterday which annoyed me.  I know that probably I should leave it but then again I have a blog so if I want to rant about something then I have an outlet to do it. Warning – if you are not in the mood for a random rant then please look away now. I really think that I am quite an open-minded person and I am open to people having the views that they do. If they don’t marry up with mine then that is fine. If someone wants to talk complete and utter bollocks then why should it bother me? And yet every once in a while that is exactly what happens. Someone gets my goat with their nonsense and I just want to tell them to get a grip. If there are two types of people who annoy me is it those who are arrogant and those who are fake. Continue reading


A Fucking Machine

HisLordship has made a fucking machine.  It was revealed on Saturday and although the unveiling did not really take the form of the kind of hot, steamy scene that he had envisaged (the changing movements of teenagers foiled us again) we did get a chance to give it a quick practical trial. I did laughingly ask if he had already road tested it himself as this is advice that he will readily offer to other Doms before introducing a new toy, but the look on his face told me that had not been anywhere on his radar for this particular invention.

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200 Posts

post-milestone-200-2xIt turns out that yesterday’s post was my 200th here on WordPress.  I was quite surprised as I never would have considered myself a writer and would not have expected to have written so much.  When I started out I really just wanted to be able to share my journey with others in the hope that someone else might relate to it and it might be of some help, and also to connect with people online who I could learn from.  That has happened in a much bigger way than I anticipated and I really have gained hugely from writing here. Continue reading

Stuck in a dip


I am never sure whether I want to write about dips or not as it seems a bit negative. But they do happen and sometimes when you are stuck in one that is what you need to talk about. Although dips aren’t nice, I do think that they are a natural part of the ebb and flow of life and sometimes they are just where you end up. And depending on the circumstance, sometimes they are a place that you just need to endure until things perk up a bit and the stuff of life moves on to something easier to manage.   Continue reading

Hand Spanking

I have written about spanking before as it is something that I enjoy and is a big part of our dynamic but I saw that hand spanking was the topic for Kink of the Week so thought that I would try to put another post together (thanks to Ina Morata for sharing details of the various writing tasks you can get involved in).  Hand spanking is my favourite type of impact play and I love nothing more than being bared over HisLordship’s knee for a really good spank from him. The physical connection that is created through the feel of his hand on my skin is by far the best of all the tools, toys and implements that we have. Continue reading

Story of the O – #7 Multiple Orgasms (Ripple Orgasms)

It was last November that I wrote about Blended Orgasms as part of the series of Story of the O posts that I had begun that September.  At the time I felt that post was the last one and that I had pretty much covered the various types of orgasms that you could have. Well this D/s lifestyle of ours has pretty much given me more than I anticipated at every step so far, so why would orgasms be any different? Cue an impromptu Sunday afternoon without kids, and bang – I experience something new! Arising from a spanking scene which, although as delicious as ever, was not something new in itself, I was actually left a bit stunned about what had taken place. Having consulted with the knowledgeable subs at The SafeworD/s Club and compared notes, I am now confident that what I experienced yesterday was a multiple orgasm. Continue reading


dramaThere was a time when I had a lot of drama in my life. This was not necessarily of my choosing but I suppose it was what came as a natural part of my life at the time. I think that when you are a teenager there is often a lot of drama and I see that every day through my work. Then at points in your life, especially if things are not going according to plan, it can creep in again. Sometimes it can be other people who arrive in your life and bring their drama with them and I suppose I have experienced a little of this recently. Continue reading