Happy Hogmanay

Wishing you all a very happy Hogmanay and a prosperous new year.  “Lang may your lum reek” is a traditional Scottish greeting for this time of year, which translated means long may your chimney smell, or rather, may your fire always have fuel. Clearly this is important in the freezing north but in this day […]

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A Need for Domination

Domination is my safe place. For those who are not in a D/s relationship it can be difficult to explain why this is the case and how it works. Sometimes it can also be difficult to explain to my Dominant what it is I need and why I need it, which can be a little […]

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holiday tips for surviving the holidays with D/s intact

Surviving the holidays

Really this post should be called, surviving the holidays, with your D/s intact, or holiday tips. This can be difficult to do. There can be so many pressures on you – usually time and people – that keeping each other as your priority can be hard. In our efforts to meet the, sometimes unreasonable and […]

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24. Christmas Present

‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse; missy got ready, preparing with care, Knowing HisLordship soon would be there. Meanwhile, he too, was preparing for bed, While visions of kink danced around in his head; He imagined having missy spread over his lap, […]

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This Thing We Do

The last few weeks have made me realise that actually my effort at a submissive advent calendar is a good example of how I define this thing we do: ttwd; this D/s thing. It is an illustration of how my submission works and I think it is a good insight into the type of relationship […]

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