Happy Hogmanay

Wishing you all a very happy Hogmanay and a prosperous new year.  “Lang may your lum reek” is a traditional Scottish greeting for this time of year, which translated means long may your chimney smell, or rather, may your fire always have fuel. Clearly this is important in the freezing […]

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A Need for Domination

Domination is my safe place. For those who are not in a D/s relationship it can be difficult to explain why this is the case and how it works. Sometimes it can also be difficult to explain to my Dominant what it is I need and why I need it, […]

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holiday tips for surviving the holidays with D/s intact

Surviving the holidays

Really this post should be called, surviving the holidays, with your D/s intact, or holiday tips. This can be difficult to do. There can be so many pressures on you – usually time and people – that keeping each other as your priority can be hard. In our efforts to […]

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Happy Christmas

Whatever it is that you love to do, I hope that this Christmas you find the time and the opportunity to make it happen. Wishing you all a very merry Christmas. Warmest wishes, missy and HisLordship 😊

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24. Christmas Present

‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse; missy got ready, preparing with care, Knowing HisLordship soon would be there. Meanwhile, he too, was preparing for bed, While visions of kink danced around in his head; He imagined having […]

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This Thing We Do

The last few weeks have made me realise that actually my effort at a submissive advent calendar is a good example of how I define this thing we do: ttwd; this D/s thing. It is an illustration of how my submission works and I think it is a good insight […]

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22. Dancing Queen

The first time I danced for Sir for his pleasure, we were in a hotel and we were rudely interrupted by the fire alarm. My gift for today is to dance for him again;  I hope this time I will only ignite him and not the actual building! 

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21. School's Out!

Woohoo – last day at work and then no more school for two weeks.  So to mark the occasion, I hope to be allowed to be Sir’s very own naughty schoolgirl this evening. 

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20. All wrapped up

Tonight we hope to sit and wrap some presents so I thought that today I would give Sir some cling film in case he wants to take the wrapping theme a little further.

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19. Christmas Candle

The temperature has dropped and it’s cold outside so today I thought that I would give HisLordship a candle in case he fancied some wax play at some point over the festive season.

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18. I saw missy tickle Santa Claus

HisLordship has a very sensitive back and he loves when I touch it. So today’s treat is a back tickle. In celebration of my submission, I will put on some nice Christmas music and gently trace the words from the songs on his skin.

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17. Christmas Carols

Sir loves to hear me play the piano so this evening I hope he will let me play for him. I hope his own carol concert will help to get him into the festive mood, and to add a kinky edge, I will play naked.

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16. Naughty Elf

Today I will offer Sir his very own naughty elf.  We are out this evening so I will pretend to be good to our friends, but underneath he will know.  And when we get home it will be all change. (Yes, I did get the outfit too).  

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14. Touch me

Sometimes I think that we can be guilty of forgetting about the simple things that help to connect us. So to celebrate the 14th day of my submissive advent calendar, I would like to spend (at least) 14 minutes touching Sir sensually and just enjoying the feel of him.

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13. Things I love

Just over half-way and this will be an easy one. Sir knows how much I love him but he always enjoys being reminded what some of those little things are. So today I will send him 13 messages, each with a different thing that I love about him.

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12. At Your Feet

Today I would like permission to sit at Sir’s feet and give him a foot massage.  This is not something that he would usually require but I am hoping that he might enjoy being pampered a little bit.

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11. Striptease

Today I am pushing my tinselled boundaries and, hopefully, giving Sir something which is both naughty and nice. He will know that this one will not be easy for me, but I aim to give it my best shot.

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Reflections on advent – so far

Part way through, not quite half-way, and I thought I would consider how things are going with my Submissive Advent Calendar.  It has been quite illuminating for me as a submissive actually.  I am not sure I have learnt anything that I didn’t know already, but it has certainly been […]

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