Cock Therapy

I wrote about the role of oral sex in our relationship in my post, when giving meets receiving, and there I mentioned that we used it sometimes as part of our ritual for transitioning from work to home mode and also sometimes to reset our dynamic. I also explained that over […]

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Two Faced Update

So, Sir read my post and when had finished said, “Very informative.” I wasn’t really sure if that was good or bad, but the evening passed anyway.  After a bit he told me it was time for bed and said that he thought that he would give me five minutes of the […]

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Two Faced

Two days in and I am finding this week a challenge.  After two weeks at home with Sir, I am back out there in my other world, earning a living.  After two weeks of submitting to him, I am his completely, and I have not had to worry about anything […]

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The Power Exchange

The power exchange that takes place in our D/s relationship is a key part of what keeps our dynamic alive, but it is not something which is easy to explain. I imagine that those in similar relationships can understand the significant part it plays, but for those who aren’t, or […]

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Bending my Will

Last night, having dealt me a bit of a caning, Sir said that he planned to have my bum cheeks exposed today so that he could enjoy the marks he had made.  This morning, true to form, he had not forgotten.  “Time to get up, missy, and I would like […]

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Two Years of submission

I decided to that it would be useful to think about the past two years living as a submissive wife.  I guess that really what I want to think about it how far I have come and where I am going to go next.  I have always believed that relationships […]

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Respect

I have been thinking a lot about respect and what that means to different people. In our D/s relationship respect is extremely important. Sir requires that I am respectful to him at all times and in turn he has the greatest respect for me and values me as being part […]

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A Medicinal Spank

I have suffered from migraines for a long, long time.  The first one I had was when I was at Primary School. I noticed suddenly that I couldn’t see properly and thought I was going blind; then the headache kicked in, I was sick, and I took to bed in […]

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Happy Anniversary Sir

When I felt invisible, you saw me. When I felt weak, you made me feel stronger, and when I needed a friend, you were there. You have broadened my world. You are my shelter, and my wings. You have calmed me and made me feel safe, but you have also […]

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Domination, submission and Trust

                                                               via Daily Prompt: Trust Trust is vital in any relationship.  It is one of the cornerstones and without it […]

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i need You

  I have that overwhelming need for you tonight. It started as a seed in my mind – from what I am not sure. A word, a thought, an action? But it has grown, my body nurturing it, until it has developed and it will be heard. It is a […]

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Story of the O – #5 Spanking (impact) Orgasms

I have already posted a couple of times about spanking and the role it has in our dynamic (Spanking Uncovered and Oh That Sweet Sweet Spot).  In the second of these posts I have referred to the sweet spot and the fact that the repeated attention to that area can get me […]

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Little Ramble on Promises

via Daily Prompt: Promise I promised to try to put you first; to keep you at the forefront of my mind and think of you, especially when I was faced with a situation I was unsure about.  I promised to open up and to show you all of me (or […]

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Original?

via Daily Prompt: Original Everyone wants to be original.  We love to think that there is something unique and maybe a little edgy about us – something special that others look at and are encouraged or inspired by.  So we try to move away, sometimes, from the crowd, reassuring ourselves […]

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D/s has made me sexy

I think that for most women, being desired makes them feel sexy.  That ‘I want you to want me’ idea still reigns strong and sometimes that can be a hard thing to find. The drudge of daily life can drag you down and mean that you begin to feel a […]

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Story of the O – #4 Anal Orgasms

An anal orgasm was not something I was really prepared for and it came as a bit of a surprise. A pretty amazing surprise but a surprise nonetheless. We had been engaging in anal play for a while when it first happened. I think I said before that I had […]

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Saturday Morning – sans kids

So after breakfast Sir told me to go and stand at the foot of the stairs.  He then told me to remove my clothes and to stand facing him.  He was still in the kitchen.  He said that he wanted me to know the effect that he had on me […]

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Meltdown

I’m calling this meltdown because officially a meltdown is ‘an intense response to overwhelming situations’. It happens when someone becomes completely overwhelmed by their current situation and temporarily loses behavioural control.  I think that this pretty well sums up my feelings and behaviour the other night.

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Nipple Play

I was never really much into nipple play.  In fact, when I met Sir, I told him not to bother wasting time with my nipples as touching them didn’t do anything for me.  OMG how wrong I was!  I am not exactly sure what he did but he has transformed […]

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Story of the O – #3 Squirting Orgasms

I first learnt about squirting orgasms when I met Sir, but that was before he was Sir and he was just my boyfriend.  (If you can have a ‘boyfriend’ when you are in your late 30s that is.)  Maybe I was a bit too old to be learning new tricks, […]

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