orgasms - story of the O

Story of the O – #1 Orgasms

This is the first part of a group of multiple posts on orgasms, including: Forced Orgasms, Squirting Orgasms, Anal Orgasms, Spanking (impact) Orgasms and Blended Orgasms. I have always considered myself fortunate in that I am able to orgasm quite easily.  I was aware that statistically I was one of the […]

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Oh That Sweet Sweet Spot

When we first started spanking we didn’t know much about the sweet spot.  This is a term used to describe the part of the lower bum just above where it meets the top of the thighs. It is called the sweet spot as it feels especially good when spanked, due […]

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A Safe Place

Sir mentioned me recently his a post, What’s in a Name, where he commented, “she doesn’t find having her Dom firing on one cylinder a safe place to be.”  I thought about this at the time and felt quite guilty that he had felt that is what he saw in me. […]

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Without Words

The room was dark and had the faint smell of almond oil. She was naked. She knelt as he had instructed.  She started slightly as the music filled the room. She waited patiently and tried to focus.  Her legs began to ache. They became hot and began almost to burn, […]

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Four Fingers and Beyond

I was asked by a friend the other day what I got out of fisting and anal sex.  She also wondered what it was that my Sir got from it.  She and her Dom had set these as limits I think, but were interested in what there might be to […]

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The Tap of HisLordship’s Cane

I am lying on my front.  My arms are spread above me and my legs are spread apart.  I must not move and so I lie still, bound by his will.  My body is pressed into the sheets and my sensitivity to the touch of the cotton is a telltale […]

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Collar Time

For want of trying to describe our current dynamic, Sir and I would label ourselves as 24/7. We are not, however, in a high protocol Dominant/submissive relationship full-time as there has to be space there for the other things that make up our lives; work, children, friends, domestic chores etc. […]

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Wisely and Slow

Patience is a virtue; not one that I would ever have attributed to myself readily, however. And yet, I can wait sometimes.  And I do believe that I have learnt better patience through my submission. When we first began this lifestyle I wanted to run with it all. But to […]

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Pictures of You

Sir just told me that he would like to use some pictures of me on his blog. Mad panic. I know I am not meant to tell him no, but I told him no.  I think the submissive in me was shaking in the wardrobe looking for a floor length […]

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I thought I would write about my frienD/s as I have been thinking a lot about real frienD/ship recently.  By frienD/s I mean the people who I chat with regularly, who have supported my journey, who are aware of my submission and who follow a similar lifestyle.  These people have […]

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Spanking Uncovered

Spanking.  What is it about this that gets me running to my room to slip off my knickers, bend over and present myself?  I’m sure that my fellow spankthusiasts out there know exactly what I mean. But somehow, at some point, I moved from being someone who enjoyed the odd […]

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I feel like I have posted a lot about going back to work and feeling tired.  Actually, maybe it is more that I have been mad busy back at work and I haven’t posted much at all because of it. Anyway work has come between me and the things that […]

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You Tread on my Dreams

The romantic in me has always loved this poem.  I have always wanted to feel the devotion and trust that inspired Yeats but it evaded me for most of my life. The student in me appreciated the imagery and understood the depth of the passion and love that he felt in […]

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